Why are shows like Married at First Sight so ridiculous?
- Sep 23, 2018
Friday nights are usually a time to drink away your weekly woes with colleagues or friends at some hideously overpriced monstrosity at the Viaduct...Read More
Dear Kristy, Mary-Anne, Claudia, Stacey, Dawn, Mallory, and Jessi – by way of Ann M....Read More
Abigail Johnson caught up with pop-country songstress Jamie McDell to see what she’s been up to,...Read More
Sightings is an exciting play; it’s not every day that an all-female cast takes to the stage to disrupt theatre conventions with powerful,...Read More
Admit it, we’ve all had that one (or many) moment(s) in our lives when...Read More
When a friend asked novelist and famed feminist, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, advice on how to raise her young daughter as a feminist, Adichie wrote...Read More
Giulia Romanó created ‘Leaky Week’ as her final project in a Bachelor of Communication Design at AUT to encourage positive discussion and views...Read More
It feels like I write a piece like this once every few months. Another day, another cringe-worthy example of cultural appropriation, this time...Read More
My girlfriend and I were grinning from ear to ear as we left our screening of Ocean’s 8 . We hadn’t devised some feminist conspiracy to love the...Read More
I never thought I’d spent my weekend sewing rhinestones on to G-string. Nor stalking the internet for 4 hours to find a 80s leopard print thong...Read More
The way some people talk about reality TV, you’d think it was a symptom of everything wrong with modern society. People who watch it are...Read More
More than 20 years after Paris Is Burning , New York’s queer vogue ballroom scene continues to usher in a new generation of stars, as seen in...Read More
I remember hearing the lyric, ‘I was 27 surviving my return to Saturn’ in Katy Perry’s By The Grace Of God some years ago. I thought it was some...Read More
Honestly, drunk Pākehā doing the haka in London on Waitangi Day was bad enough. As a...Read More
If you haven’t yet heard of Womanly , chances are you will soon. The newly launched magazine provides a platform (both online and in print) for...Read More
I vividly remember the moment when I first discovered Zara. I was 19, on a trip to the UK, when I stumbled into an alternative universe of...Read More
Language note: Possum uses they/them pronouns.
How many pop punk stars do you know who fly to Wellington specially to see the Muppets in...Read More
Imagine this: you’ve come home from uni, you’re ready to start your kickass, girl power-fuelled career – #LeanIn #GirlBoss – and you suddenly...Read More
I’m having a bit of a renaissance period in my life. My daughter is just entering her teens and one of the things we’ve...Read More
The music video for Helen Corry’s new song La Femme drops today, and we’re stoked to premiere it here on Villainesse. It’s the kind of video you...Read More
LinkedIn wants me to connect with my ex.
God knows why. It wasn’t exactly a good idea the first time round.
Gone are the days of...Read More
Life as a 17-year-old is already challenging enough. Balancing school, new-found freedom, responsibilities, trying to have a social life, holding...Read More
I sometimes wish that real sex were like movie sex. A shared lustful look followed by a bit of kissing, hastily removed clothing, instant...Read More
Do you ever feel like you’re being watched? Or that we’re all being brain-washed into dumbing down our thoughts,...Read More
Women are creatures of wisdom. Call it intuition, experience, insight, a hunch, whatever… the world would be a better place if women were listened...Read More
Sex, porn, relationships and consent will be put under the spotlight in the new 12-part web series The REAL Sex Talk , launching online on...Read More
Ko Rangitumau te maunga. Ko Ruamāhanga te awa...Read More
New Zealand comedian Louise Beuvink was frustrated with gender roles and society’s expectations of women, so she created Ladylike: A Modern Guide...Read More
Some movies give you chills for a good reason, like brilliant cinematography or acting....Read More
The first word I ever uttered was the word ‘kaukau’, meaning to swim in Māori. My family used to take summer trips to Marokopa - a notoriously...Read More
Like death and taxes, Don Brash is one of life’s inevitabilities. No year is complete...Read More
First published on Saturday the 5th of August, 2017, this piece comes in at number 6 in the top 30 most read Villainesse stories of 2017....Read More
First published on Friday the 28th of July, 2017, this piece comes in at number 11 in the top 30 most read Villainesse stories of 2017.
Bold take: The Last Jedi is the most feminist blockbuster film of 2017....Read More
Imagine this: you’re alone, somewhere along a remote stretch of coastline where the air is so cold you can see your breath, and living out of your...Read More
Christmas songs hold a special place in my heart. I’m one of those strange people who start listening to them well before it is decent to do so,...Read More
Maybe you love them, maybe you hate them – or maybe you’ve never listened to one. But if you are a fan, you know how hard it can...Read More
With the ongoing naming-and-shaming of alleged sexual predators in Hollywood (think Spacey/ Weinstein/ Ratner/ Louis CK et al), and productions...Read More
It has historically been known as a “death sentence”, helped in no small part by campaigns of old that have featured Grim Reapers and...Read More
Film, as Rose McGowan said recently, “is the messaging system for your mind”. Whether we like it or...Read More
Who likes orgasms? OMGYES is basically the Oprah of sexual pleasure. You get an orgasm! You get an orgasm! You get an orgasm!...Read More
What have you done in the past year?
Finished a huge project? Sat your final exams? Got a new job, or started at a new school? Started...Read More
How many New Zealand artists can you name?
It’s a confronting question, sure....Read More
Sometimes, a text of encouragement is all you need. Even when you’re creating a brand new show that is due to go on stage in less than a week. No...Read More
Societally, there’s a huge push to reach a masculine ideal of power. Hard hitting, direct and unwavering. Success is ultimately codified as...Read More
If there’s one New Zealander who needs no introduction, it’s Kate Sheppard. But let’s be honest about something: she’s so...Read More
This year, on September 23, New Zealand will vote on who gets to lead the country for the next three years. Over the past...Read More
Young Māori designer Adrienne Whitewood is staging her first...Read More
Game of Thrones .
Even if you don’t watch the HBO TV show or read the books by George R. R. Martin, chances are you already know quite a...Read More
Everyone loves a rags-to-riches story. But you might not have heard this one:
Once upon a time there was a girl brought up in a brothel...Read More
Dear Mike Hosking, again,
We’ve been intrigued to hear your recent views on sexism (“...Read More
The internet has been a slippery place this week; made perilous by the constant drip of...Read More
Villainesse: What inspired you to write Powerful ?
Tali: The song is a culmination of things. Firstly, I have had various conversations...Read More
We all know and love Disney films. No one can ever take away the hours of watching and...Read More
In 2015, after six years of playing Shortland Street ’s Cooper family matriarch, Wendy, actor Jacqueline Nairn was ready for a new challenge that...Read More
Can opera be political? If you ask Emma Pearson, the answer is yes.
Pearson is one...Read More
Can dance be empowering? Sure it can – at least as Ufitia Sagapolutele tells it.
Sagapolutele will be presenting her work Ave as part of...Read More
Dancer Santee Smith is Onkwehon:we (meaning “Real People”) from the Kahnyen’kehàka (Mohawk) Nation, Turtle Clan, Six Nations of the Grand River....Read More
By now the scenes are all too familiar: the dead, the wounded, the wreckage. A senseless act of violence meant to instill...Read More